I have some friends of mine who are going through the process of buying their first home. It’s a very exciting time. The wife recently told me that they found the home that they want and it’s the cutest little place, rustic but quaint, four bedrooms, two bathrooms, a nice big garden, fantastic location and a swimming pool. As soon as she mentioned the swimming pool, her husband glanced over from another conversation and grimaced. Noticing, the wife told me he feels the swimming pool is a ‘death trap.’ They have no children as of yet but many of their…